How Your Mood Affects Your Surroundings
As for today, I woke up with a very awful feeling courtesy of an illness around my throat which I do not have any idea what kind of madness it is. Probably for eating an ice cream a couple days before but for Peter's sake it is only a single Cornetto! not that I would say no to gobble a big mega of it if I could, haha. Well we are not going to talk about the unknown disease I might encountered, you will die from the boredom that I put you into, pfft. Exaggerating~ It is nothing about that, just a little intro that will leading us to the reason why I put such title as it said How Your Mood Effects Your Surroundings. Well to put that in a way that I can explain it to you, when the word mood crash into you, what word that suddenly pop into your head? is it bad mood? rough day in the morning? mother got you grounded for turning the house into a wrecked ship with your pals? or good mood? you want to share your special feeling to someone ? got a hot looking boyfriend? haha I would say tons of things about it. Nah I am too lazy to elaborate it, in fact it would takeo days to write it down. hahaha kidding. On to it!
Good Mood
Having a good mood has been a number one desire in every body's will. I mean who doesn't want it? I myself want to be in a good mood as long as I can. I do not want to waste my time feeling gloomy and pester a long face. It is both consuming too much energy and not a good food for my health. People tend to seek for pleasure than grief. As much as we can and as long as we could get. Happiness has been the main reason for having a good mood. It felt so good to have a new car. Having a great promotion must be like a strawberry on top. Winning a good and fair game against a tough enemy feel so surreal and such a great accomplishment. Those are things that can put a big smile on anyone faces. Wanting and needing is always be a part of human nature. We tend to seek for something that bears a good profit in it. That leads us to a Bermuda triangle kinda thing namely expectations. When something bad comes up out of the blue, which is beyond our presupposition, we doom. Sh*t happens. We begin to put our hand on our face and making those f*cked-up facial expression along with that deep never ending sigh. It is the opposite thing when we feel so happy for having a good marks on Math, got accepted on the dream job, get a full day off for a week from the Hitler kinda boss. Feels like we own the world, and like we can do anything. No kidding we can't. haha well it is indeed is a great feeling to be in a good mood. Most people are care enough to share their happiness around them, while others staying low profile and not bragging too much. The said feeling is good and true. When people are in love they smile too much, show off those teeth too often almost look like an idiot. They will have that over positive way of thinking and seeing things in their surroundings. They frequently will tolerate things a lot more better than those who are not having such emotion. It sure brings a very pleasant atmosphere around them. Tell me if I am wrong. We would smile when we have people give the same reaction toward us. Despite of all trouble that probably keeps running in our mind, we keep on put a nice face.
Bad Mood
Bad mood is always be the best feeling to make it the main reason when we do not want to talk to people. I do it occasionally to be honest. Back in the Uni. haha wish my friends do not read this. As I remembered I get to be called moody person once. I tend to shut myself up when I do not want to socialize. Then they would start to ask those 'why and what' questions that only make my mood even worse than before. I felt sorry for those who got my cynical responds. Lol you guys just do not have any idea. I could not blame them. Nah once again mood always took a very critical point in our surroundings. It never be a pleasant thing to have a bad mood. It is like having a pimple right on top of your nose, you just want to annihilate it without trace. It could be a little dangerous when you have an important task to be finished but just at the worst moment your temperamental boss demand another tasks for you to make it done right away. You will find your mind goes rollercoastering. What sh*t did you dreamt last night? Lol I would seriously blow up without even thinking on where and what kind of consequence I would got afterwards. Well I am only human. So it is mostly normal right? haha I am just trying to reasoning myself. Well it is what happened when someone have a very bad mood at the very unwell situation.
Apart from all of those words I keep rambling on about, whether you are in a good mood or a bad one, you can try to not over reacting it. Like embrace it with a good smile when you are happy. Do not go all shouting and making other people uncomfortable or even worst thought you insane. It also occurs when you are in a bad mood. Well I am not saying for you to put a smile on your face, that is nuts! Just be honest to yourself. Yet instead of getting on rage and making yourself look like an angry Hulk throwing and tossing stuffs, you can put those ugly hell swearing words into your mind. You can even post it on a blog. You will even get paid by it. haha though I can not give you the tips about getting paid. I am a blank sheet about it. As much as we do not want bad things happen in our life, it still happens. The outcomes are depend on how good we treat such matter. Different people will see things differently. How bad or good a situation is are based on how the said doer act upon it. You can get so furious and slamming the door, or swearing bad words and punching the wall, it is on you to react the way you want. However, knowing the result that might happen afterward, is worth considering. I would apply the 'think before you speak' phrase onto this one. Not only because word are a weapon-like thing to begin with, but word also bears a very powerful meaning in it. So before you saying things that you might think you mean it which in your composed self not, you might want to consider this phrase. It applies as well as in things that you do. Try not to do things that you might regret later in the future. That is the hardest part in living this life, I guess. So whatever your situation is right now, compose yourself as well as you can, in such a way that you will be proud of. Think again if you want to waste your energy on things that are not even worth a single muscle. Share your happiness when you are happy. Just do not go smiling like you are just having a new set pair of white teeth from a dentist. When you are angry or sad, instead of shut yourself in, find a company to talk with. It helps a lot. You are still human. You make stuff that you will regret, and keep doing the same mistake twice thrice and million times without a shame. Lol May you have a good life that someday you will loved to talk about! God be with you always~
